Stepmom

I remember seeing one of the taiwanese celebrities mentioning about his childhood time,

When he's ill-treated by his so-called "stepmom", ie. his father's new girlfriend…

I blogged before, regarding how a mother, will let her girl being tortured/abused by her new lover, (either separated, or husband passed away)

Normally that's the case, I can't remember if I've blogged in english or chinese, anyway…

Usually what happened in the dramas/movies… (which I doubt it'll not happen in real life)

Woman lost her husband, hooked up with a man, who kinda treat her good,

Then, one day, her young daughter come complaint that she's molested by the man, and she refused to believe…

And that continue, to family broken…

Something like this…

I mentioned before, I do not understand, how a mother will do so, rather not believe in her own daughter, and continue to live with that man!! (oh ya, I think, it's related to my "inspiration" regarding mediacorp drama "love blossom")

I understand, most of the time, it can be due to the stress of everyday living… work, money and so on…  but that's your daughter…

Ok… let's switch the roles…

Now, I start to think about father and his children, to make it less complicated, father, son, and stepmom, or girlfriend, whatever…

Man, since they're not domestic-inclined… I'm sure, most of them, if their kids are still young, and after loosing their wife, they'll, very fast, resolve to getting a new "girlfriend", to help up domestically, mostly to help up taking care of their kids…  if not babies…

And most of the time, these women, will ill-treat the kids…

Maybe I've watched too much dramas or what crap… but sometimes it's really hard for me to believe, another woman, will just pick up the loving motherly role and love you "unconditionally", (ironically, even real maternal parents may not love their own kids unconditionally, right? You must have good result, you must behave, you must earn a lot of money when you grow up, bla bla bla, so, what more to say, a "just somebody" from the street, which your father picked up, as girlfriend??)

I remember that guy, I mean, that celebrity… (I think, he's one of the celebrity dancer, those calligrapher)

He, even as adult, still painfully mentioned how he was beaten up by that father's girlfriend, (ya, though she's a nurse, supposedly a person full of loving attitude right?)

… of how he's not given any food,

And how this woman pretend to be a good "mother" to this young boy,

And how his father never even bother to ask, how he is…

Bla bla bla… same old story with stepmom…

I've to admit..

As a mother… I do think of whatever that's even unthinkable…

What if???

And what if…???????

A lot of what if….

I don’t want to say any "touch wood" thing…

My conclusion is…

For baby's sake, I have to live!!

As… man, are really not domestic-inclined…

They normally are blinded with good-acting…

They don't see through people's act… ie. if you act good, I trust you, you're good!! And that's why, most of the time, any evil woman can just easily con a man… even when they ill-treat his family so much!!

So… man, be careful, ok???

Don't just trust what you see, or what you hear, ESPECIALLY SWEET TALK, OR SWEET ACT!