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Over my dead body!!!!!!

Ya, it's not that 'kak lei' (cantonese) to put it in the title… ^_^, just an expression ok!!!

What I mean is,

Guys, I mean, men, will never understand, why their wives will not want to part with their babies/kids, and thus leave their kids with their men's family, OUT OF TOWN!!!

Men will never understand, they'll never do…

They WILL NEVER!!!!!!

And they'll never understand, why their wives can't do this, but can leave their babies/kids with their own parents, OUT OF TOWN…

Let me simplify and tell you,

If you still don't understand, don't bother to, just accept it, as it is…

Cos, it's because you don't understand, that doesn't equate to the fact that, it doesn't exist!!!

Cos, it's simply because you can't understand…

I'll try not to make it as gory as possible.. (I wanted to use a worse scenario in fact, but it's just too extreme!)

So… since, people said, babies, ie. our kids, is just like our flesh and blood, (to the mothers)

I'll then, just use, "flesh and blood"…

It's like this,

It's just like taking part of our flesh and blood, and keep it in other people house…, under other people care…

Our own flesh and blood, ok???

Then… of course it feels safer/more secured, if we keep our flesh and blood in our parents' house, under our parents' care, than any other people!!! Get it???

Ya, most men still can't get it, probably still can't get it even after reading this…

"our" = woman, in this context…

Our life's given by our parents, ie. we, the flesh and blood of theirs…

And thus, it's more sensible, and "by default", we keep our flesh and blood, with our own parents,

Just like men, they don't seem to think that, there should be problem keeping their children with their parents too…

It's the same thing…

Get it?

Don't get it??

Nevermind…

Things won't change anyway...