What's the first thing our parents teach us?? Now.. let me recall... ^_^ nah!! I can't really remember, frankly...
but now, I am interested to know... really!! what's the first thing we were taught, when we could understand human interaction better...
to be honest, to yourself and to others???
or to be good, to be nice???
Ha!! both are equally positive attributes to a personality right??
However...
I keep thinking that, our parents really, rarely taught us to be honest, to ourselves and to the others...
That's why, we see so many people around us, are trying so hard, to be nice, to be a good guy, to please the others...
I wouldn't want to put judgement on which supercede the other, however...
I do have my own preference and examples to be told..
First example, "Desperate Housewives" (Oh!! for your information, I am really not a big fan of this series... but when there's nothing much to watch on TV, I do 'peep' into this series, once in a while)
of all housewives, I only kinda like Gabriel, why? cos, she's more real!! the rest, one is just too obsessive, which I hate, and another one, Susan, I have even more, cos, she's just plain stupid and try to be nice... while she simply just can't accomplish anytyhing... don't like her, and never like her...
as for Gabriel... well... not the best example for a housewife, or even woman, but then, I simply like how she's being so bitchy and 'truthful' about her needs and dislikes... very simple!!!
Second example, "Sex and the City", (Oh!! I'm again, not a big fan, but while late at night, nothing on TV, again, I sill somehow watch it, however, I somehow prefer this one than "Desperate Housewives", simply because, there isn't A stupid Susan jumping around and showing off her stupidity!!)
Of all four of them, I prefer to see, can't remember her name, basically the nymphomaniac... (oh! I checked, her name is Samantha) again, cos, she's truthful about her likes and dislikes, and her 'needs' and her preference... while Carrie and Miranda, are just desperate (I actually think they're more desperate than the bunch of desperate housewives in "Desperate Housewives") just that, one is more of a 'feeling lost' personality and the other is scared of commitment and wants the best of both 'world' (committed and non-committed)
What I am saying is... I'll rather teach my kid to be an honest person... ie. "Let no thought linger in your mind that you would be ashamed to let out of your mouth!"
As, there're just too many people around, trying too hard to be nice, while they don't really mean it!!!!!!! Hey!! we are not stupid, we can differentiate between real nice, and faked nice!!! OK????!!!!
Why do people play the "I'm fine with anything" role, and then they show off their 'distaste' and launch their complaint-machine-gun when they're really not that pleased with the choice/decision??
Why do people never say the first "NO", but later come up to you with many zillion of "NO"s and worsen the whole situation for you???
Why do people never tell what they actually want, or simply say "OH! I am simple, I don't want anything!" while you know very well deep down in their heart, they're plotting and planning on how to get things out from you???
Why do people never tell how the feel about you, right in front of you, as they TRY TO BE NICE, then, they start all the bad-mouth session with the others???
so, THESE ARE what you call, NICE PEOPLE??? Huh!! -.-
well... for those who're trying to be nice, while they don't really mean it...
then I want to tell them (and tell them for me), "People won't like you, just because you're TRYING to be nice!!"
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