To the other side of the Wall

I have another 'theory' ^_^
WE... if not the absolute opposite, but are definitely different to some extent, from the real person deep inside us...
WE all ARE!!

again, due to my natural instinctive protective system in each of us...

As, those who appear to be weak, need protection, they're in fact much stronger and tougher in personality... even though they portray themselves to be the little one who need protection
whilst, those who appear to be tough and stong, and maybe sometimes even fierce, most of them are just 'chicken' and timid deep inside...
those who appear to be extremely friendly may not be able to be made best friends afterall... as well as, those who appear to be cold, maybe made your best best friends...
those who appear to be bossy in front of you, I guess, simply because they can't be bossy elsewhere...
those who appear to be listeners, in fact, are making themselves to be quiet, to collect 'information' and then slowly looking for their listeners... (come on, we all are givers and takers at the same time, no matter what... it just that, what we give and what we take, maybe in absolutely different forms)
those who appear to be big talkers, fun and confident, in fact, they are scared, talking, is just to deviate attention... : ) (I'm not talking about those who're good at making presentation and etc)

Thomas Wayne: You know why they attacked you, don't you? They were afraid of you.
Bruce Wayne: Afraid of me?
Thomas Wayne: All creatures feel fear.
Bruce Wayne: Even the scary ones?
Thomas Wayne: Especially the scary ones.

those who appear to be funny and like to entertain others, in fact, they may not smile or laugh when they are alone, most of the time...
while those who appear to be so uninteresting and boring... in fact, if you know more about them, you may find their life being interesting... (as for me, everybody's life is unique and have a story to tell... it's all about 'connection' with the others, rather than being interesting or boring...)

OK... there're too many different type (zillion!!) for me to describe, or even for me to think about and mention it here... first, I don't know, second, I wouldn't know how as well...
however... I tend to have this idea that, as all of us have a ruler in our heart, all of us, do build a wall in front of us as well...
some of us do, some of us don't try to climb over that wall... that's why, we're always changing, and evolving and trying to be more truthful, honest to ourselves and to others... however, most of the time, it's either we've climbed the wall half way, then slide down, or we've manage to put our heads over the top of the wall... and let others see the real true us, but yet, we fall down again...

There's always a Wall, and that we're always trying to get to the other side of the Wall...
and we'll always try to overcome it, however from time to time... we do fall back behind the wall...
It's difficult for us to get inside the others' walls, but it's even more difficult for us to get outside of our own walls...