2013-01-01

of rewards…


Oh, I've not been updating much in this place… (mostly hanging out in my chinese page, haha!)
Anyway,
Yes, parenting baby's challenging,
Sometimes, I myself am lost, frankly, till he's to tell me this, "coaching and being sarcastic is different!",
@_@

Therefore, I've to watch out, on my own speech…

Despite the difficult part,
Yes, I know baby's been a good baby,
Cos, there're some "difficult" correction, she could just correct it, within one day, and once and for all…
However, there're some "tougher" habits in her, that, I guess, it's just these sort of little things about toddler of her age, something in all of them, that it's just hard for her to change/eliminate…

Tough ones like:-
For a period of time, she says "ya" a lot, whenever she answers me, her responses, most of the time, were "ya"…
Then, I explained to her on the context of it,
And that, she reduced the usage of it, in pretty short time frame,
I taught her a few "expressions"… to replace "ya"…

On the second thing,
I don't know since when, she covers her mouth whenever she laughs,
I told her that, she could put her hand on her stomach, covering the mouth when laughing's bad gesture, which I do not want her to carry…

Or…
Sometimes, her fingers get pretty… em… idly, and that, she'll have some fidgeting moves (hm!! Sounds like there's a problem here huh?? Though, I can't be sure if there's, or there isn't… most of us, have had this stage, some time down the road, or before…)
So, I told her, if she doesn't know what to do with her hand, she could just tuck it under her lap, if she's sitting down…

Anyway, we'll see…
Of the three little habits listed above, I thought, it's pretty hard for a kid to kick,
But then, she seemed to achieve it pretty easily…
So, I told her, I'm very happy about it, and that…
She'll have her favourite cupcakes tomorrow, ghee…! ^_^

On other bad habits, yet to be corrected… hm...
She likes to lie down on the floor, I mean, any floor, it can be the floor in our own house (no problem!) and also, the floor in the enhancement centre, my friend's house, and I'm worried, when she goes to school, she'll lie down in the classroom's floor… @_@
Yet, at her age, she still can't help but to put things into her mouth, which, can be anything, from the edge of the table, or the toy broom stick that she's holding, or, simply, her fingers… @_@
Other than that, of course, she still have some small habits, that I wish she can change gradually…
Yes, gradually…

And therefore, I taught her how to pray,
Of course, it's for I myself too…
As I want her to know that, sometimes, she can seek help from another source too…

We'll see...

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