2012-08-22

Everything is going to be OK...

ya, that's the last sentence in the book of Trace Moroney's "When I'm Feeling" series,
ie. "When I'm Feeling SAD"...
I was reading this book to baby this evening,
it's a good book of teaching kids, about feelings...
ya, I like these books...
I thought I've got one with "When I'm Feeling Angry", but I've not seen one on the bookshop, I supposed...

anyway,
when I read this sentence, "Everything is going to be OK",
I felt sad...
cos... I thought, whenever there's anybody telling you this,
or, whenever you've gotta tell other people this sentence,
or, whenever others use this sentence to another person,
generally... something bad/sad had happened...
and this is the one last thing that we can say,
to make the person feel a little bit better, a little bit more comfortable...

that, also reminded me of one jap drama I've watched N years ago,
"Shiroi Kage",
starring Takeuchi Yuko, and Nakai Masahiro... (ya, I suddenly thought of him, cos, I'm watching ATARU now... I mean, these few days...)
ie. nurse Nobuko, vs. doctor Naoe,
where, Naoe's dying of cancer, (can't remember what cancer LA!)
and he once told Nobuko,
most patients, ie. patients with terminal illness,
do not want to hear people telling them, "gambatte!", ie. work hard, 加油,buck up, bla bla bla...
in fact, what they want, is, "it's ok... it's ok..." (that you've already done whatever you can, you've already done your best, bla bla bla!)
he explained that, all patients, or, rather... most people know that, under difficult circumstances, one gotta work hard, 加油, or buck up or  be positive...
and one probably has already done so...
however...
what comfort most... is,
"it's ok..."
that's what Naoe said to Nobuko...

hm...
back to the book,
and it ends with this sentence as well,
and therefore, I thought, it's related to "sadness", or hopelessness sometimes,
ya, sometimes...

however...
though sad...
yes, I'll thank million, if and when I'm in difficult time,
when I'm feeling sad,
that, there're somebody who come and give me a big big hug,
and tell me this,
"Everything's going to be OK, dear~"

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