ooh... I see!!!

just now, when I was preparing her for bed,

(ie. putting on socks, tucking her shirts in, bla bla bla...)

she asked me, "mama, why girls sleep with girls, and boys sleep with boys?"

(cos, she thinks that, I should be sleeping with her on the same bed, and her father, with her brother, same bed...

so, I told her, it's not like girls sleep with girls, bla bla bla...

it's just that, previously, without me sleeping with her, ie. putting her to sleep,

after 45 min to 1 hour time frame when she fell asleep,

she'd get up, crying, sweating, and he couldn't pacify her and put her back to sleep,

during those events, I gotta go in and carried her for a while, talked to her for a while, then she'll be willing to go back to sleep,

it started just about a  month ago, and we thought, it's the typical night terror...

and we tried all methods, to reduce that, she still had it,

till... I decided to change a little bit of our daily routine, and let him take care of gabriel, if needed, while, in the room, just me and baby, I put her to sleep...

SO FAR~ SO GOOD!

continue from our conversation,

so, I told her about her crying,

casually... (since we came to this topic) I asked, if she remember why she cried...

she also, "casually" told me, (kids are amazing, they're so naive, haha! call us adult, cunning!)

"cos papa didn't sayang me!", O_o

I see! I see!!! (I kinda understand where she's coming from... saying this...)

I asked her again, "who said, papa doesn't sayang you? papa loves you so much!"

"mama sayang you?"

she nodded her head...

^_^

yes, dear, yes, dear! I know, I know...

OF COURSE it's not really that he doesn't "sayang" her,

it's just that, she liked to be snuggled, and cuddled, and patted to sleep...

and, yes, of course, me, as her mother, am better in that forte... kekeke...

and of course, like I said, I later guessed that, all those night terror events, are not really so night terror per se,

just a way, for her to get me back, to her!

and I love the fact that, she still believes that I've been sleeping with her all night...

no, I don't, cos, I gotta separate gabriel from her, gabriel makes a lot of noise at night, and I don't want him to disturb her...

but then, I gotta nurse him,

so, our routine's like,

I put her to bed,

then, I get up, take care of the small one at night, while he, takes care of her, at night,

then, in the morning, while he's getting ready to go to work,

I moved back to the room, with the little one, to be with her,

so, before sleep, after get up, all she sees is, ME!!! =￣ω￣=

good, right?