The Depressed...

ok... lately I heard of someone, having depression...
well... it's not like I don't feel compassionate about this person, but then, well... since this is a person who's famous of lying, lying and lying, boasting all the time,
I'm just not sure, if this is just another act that, she's putting up...
and that, to show a little bit of "compassionate" per se, I won't mention who this person is... ^_^

see... later, then, I was so "joboh", that, I went to read some psychology/mental health related topic...
ooh... then, I learnt something,
apparently, yes, somebody who loves to lie, and makes up story... is either already having some sort of depression, or WILL have depression eventually...
cos, when somebody who's a chronic liar, (ok, some psychological term) who basically simply lie about anything, without feeling any guilt, and out of convenience, and habit... will one day, realized that, it's all JUST A LIE... and that's when depression set in...
and the root cause?? well... low self-esteem,
they lie to get attention,
they lie so that, people think that, their life's so interesting...

well... seriously, there're people, for some reason (seriously again, I don't really know why) think that, other's life's just soooooooooooo interesting, and that, their own life's nothing happening... and therefore, they dropped into the deep trough in emotion, by lying, by making up stories...

ok... all these traits, jive with what I've observed, known, and recognized of this very person that I've mentioned... and that, she's said, having depression...
still of course, while others probably trust her story, I'll still have some sort of reserve... cos, like I said, this person's chronic liar...

anyway, we're out of each other life now... and that probably you think that, I shouldn't bother...
well... in a way, but then, I do have to take note of myself... as lying, does lead to depression, or vice versa, that's worth taking note...
and of course, my opinion?? whoever encourages this person's lying habit, shall hold part responsibility...
cos, when somebody's building up his/her own dream world, ie. lied world, fantasy land... and that, you actually condone it, indirectly encourage it... maybe you didn't know, or maybe you've already know, that, some part of this person's a lie, or brag, or boast... and it's become habitual, and yet, you don't point it out... you're helping the behaviour to be getting worse, aren't you??

and worst of all is,
one day, you're the one, who actually point it out to this person, that HEY! EVERYTHING'S A LIE!!
imagine??

if that's me??
yes, I'LL BE DEPRESSED!
(that's what I mean, I do need to take note as well... for whoever I care, I love, and maybe, myself...)