the husband who becomes a son... ~_~

just the other day, I came across this short story, regarding a husband, who becomes a son...

of course, a husband's always somebody's son...

then, the article went on,

to talk about when a husband, in front of his parents, he retreats to becoming a son again, forgetting that, he's now, a husband, a father...

THAT reminds me of how I felt...

and I feedback to him, of course, I didn't correlate everything, and told him this exactly...

then, after many years, as today, I came across that article...

and THAT's why, no wonder, we WIVES, do not quite like it when our... ahem... in-laws are around...

well... put it in another way,

IF, even when his parents are around, and he's still taking charge, to be the MAN,

maybe things will not be that bad...

but most of the time, (ahem... let me clarify first, my husband's fine now... ^_^, he's the man now, or... most of the time, I reminded him, to be THE MAN!)

dear husband suddenly become a son,

forgetting the wife, forgetting the kids...

for eg. happily laze in the sofa, almost whole day,

wife needs help? call his parents,

kids needs companion? grandparents will be around...

whenever he's with his parents, he kinda washes his hands off, AS A FATHER, AS A HUSBAND...

and THAT's WHY...

we wives, do not feel quite comfortable about that...

ok, maybe you're fine with that...

but not me... at least, for some unknown reason...

I just feel awful, I just feel, hey!! why my husband's become so lame...

that's my finding...

so, if you've no choice, but to be with your in-laws...

tell your husband this,

do not become a just a son,

and please remember his other duty, husband, father...

if there's anything that, we (the wife) needs, and the kids need,

HE, needs to step up!

not just conveniently pass it to his parents...