If you know very well that, I'll not be happy about it, then, don't do it behind my back, that's the minimal respect that you can give me, and you yourself...

If you think that, the word "respect" is only for elderly, then, please start learning again…

Nobody says "old people" can't learn…

Yes… I can't just get myself to agree those elderly, be it grandparents, or aunties, or uncles, who!!!!! Tentatively teach our kids to hide the truth from us, and bribe them to junk food, sweets, outing to shopping malls… (if you tell your parents, you won't have these anymore!) ie. teaching them to lie!!!

Why teach young children to lie!!

Why teach young children to hide things from their very own parents??

Cos, simply you think you OWN the parents?? And thus, you own the grandchildren too??

It sucks!!

Yes, I can't trust this type of elderly 100%,

And I definitely won't give them my respect 100%,

If you want people to give you respect, as a human, as an individual, then do something that's respectable,

Not something like this, behind my back, bla bla bla…!!

And worse is, if you want to do something like this,

Be smart enough to not let the whole world know…

Not even 1 single soul…

Not just me,

But others,

If other parents entrusted their kids to you,

Tell you all the DON'Ts,

Please respect!!

Like I said, that's the minimal respect that you should have, for others, and thus for yourself!!!

If you disagree, then, sit down and come to an agreement,

Avoiding, and hiding, that's not a solution though you may think it is…

IT IS NOT!!

Well… you can continue to live your life like an ostrich, ie. unwilling to face the truth, unwilling to face confrontation, unwilling to face solution…

Fine!!

There go my respect..

Then, don't complain to me that, others have no respect for you!