2009-10-25

maths bring us together...

wo hoho!! ya, cos, i've just finished watching the jdorama "galileo", ie. my head's full of maths...
anyway, if you're real mathematician (which i think you're a genius) then, you probably will be able to calculate the probability of X meets Y, and so on, so forth...

actually what i want to talk about is...
my gynae, a.k.a. my idol, my hero ^_^

yep... that's as true as it sounds like...
today, i went for my post-natal checkup, before i exited the room, i asked him (dr. tan teck sing @ SJMC/SDMC - also, the one who delivered baby)...
"can i asked you 1 question?"
he smiled and nodded...
"when are you going to retire? if you're going to retire, please tell me, then i'll fast fast go make more babies" (something like that...)
he smiled again, and said, it will not be for the next 5 years
then, i asked him,
"if you're going to move to another hospital, please inform me too"
he then said, he won't leave SJMC...

wow!! happy and i came out...

how i ended up with dr. tan... the cronology is like this...
when i was with ingram micro, we've a few panel clinic... then, my colleagues were telling me to go to this medijaya clinic near kelana jaya, along LDP,
as the doctors there were female, ie. if you wanna do some female related checkup, it'll be more comfortable...
that's the first time in my life, i thought about having some gynae related checkup, instead of the normal body checkup...

so, i ended up with dr. siew...
that's in year 2003/2004... before i quite ingrammicro, and join him on his project "tour" ^_^
then... i started the "tour" with him... however, 2 years down the road, when we're in melbourne, i decided, i may have some severe problem in there...
i went to dr. siew again, to probe further, and she concluded that i may have an ovarian cyst... that's the beginning chapter of the encounterment between me and dr. tan @ SJMC...
she said, she could recommend me some good gynae, dr. jason @ sunway medical, or dr. tan @ SJMC...
dr. jason - marketing guy (he's a chatty doctor)
dr. tan - a 1-word guy (he doesn't talk unnecessary)

i don't like chatty men!! frankly, ie. i don't really like sales men (sales women can, not sales men, i don't like guys who talk a lot, i thought... talking a lot, is a female thing, 女人的天職,就是說說說,說個不停)
so, i opted for dr. tan...

then, i went to see him, and do checkup, and have an operation, bla bla bla...
that time, dr. tan, really speaks very little, he couldn't be bothered to go through long process, and story to explain to you into details of what you're going through or, what you're experiencing, all he does is... just, "trust me, it'll be quick, and less uncomfortable",
simply "trust me trust me, and trust me all the way"...
even he, also commented that, "dr. tan is man of few words" (cos, he really is not the type of doctor who's very keen on entertaining your every single question)
after my operation, that's in year 2007, when i started working again...
i needed to undergo some process to stop myself from being a woman ^_^ (haha, i'm not going to explain it)
for 6 long months...
yew!!

then... 2008, march, big things happened in my family... sigh...
then, july 2008, i went back to him... first thing he said, in mandarin (suddenly, all this while, we've been communicating in english)
"有好消息了?" (got good news?)
i nodded... so, immediately he went to scan...

and that's the first time, i saw my little pea, in my tummy...

cut short... to final episode season 1 ^_^
delivery of baby's fast and simple...

what i want to stress on, in this blog is that...
i personally really think that, dr. tan's skill is damn good!! excellent...
i've heard, many time, from friends who've undergone ceasarian..
"my stitch still hurt after so many years"
"i can't even do sit up now"
"the place got cut, if my son/daughter runs into me, still hurt"

err... i've to say... it's really either dr. tan is that good, or, i'm just that lucky...
i can sit up now...
i don't feel hurt there anymore...
only that, psychologically, i myself, do not dare to touch too hard there, or, scratch, or whatever there...
but, other than that... well... i haven't tested with baby run into my tummy area, and bump on it...
i'll give you the verdict, when she's capable to do so...

addon to it..
my other colleague who... happened to 'end up' with dr. tan...
this is her verdict... (she had a normal delivery)
"dr. tan is so cool!"...

wow!! ^_^
ya, he's THAT good, my dr. tan...
kekekeke!!!

ps: when i signed up the stemlife, the sales lady even commented that, dr. tan is very considerate in terms of handling me, (cantonese: "sek", ie. 疼我)
as i was explaining to her, how i'll then go through the admission when the big day comes... dr. tan didn't request me to go to the hospital one night earlier (help me to save 1 night fees), instead, he asked me to go there early in the morning...
(oops.. that's another story, have i written about that??... i think i have, but nevermind...)

oh, why do i have such title??
all i want to say is...
for one, meeting and knowing another person, it's all fate, destination...
why did i not choose dr. jason during that time, or, why did dr. siew not recommending me, other doctors??
or, even... what would happen, if i didn't got o see dr. siew in the first place (oh, ya, i picked dr. tan is also because, dr. tan is dr. siew own gynae)
sometimes, when i think of it, it's just simply amazing...
驚訝於人與人之間的緣分,
奧妙與神奇,
往往,在這樣的情況下,我都感謝天主,
因為,因為只有祂,可以把人與人之間的互動,
把我,和我親人的生命,安排得如此美妙,
雖然有時候,還是悲傷的事發生(就比如說,媽走了)
然而,不到最後,不到那一刻,我們永遠不會知道”爲什麽“。。。

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