2009-07-19

God has given you one face, and you make yourself another. ~William Shakespeare

I’ve mentioned about my 2-face ex-colleague (ya, now become “ex”) a couple of time before this…
This is not going to be about her anymore (it’s enough, and also, until today, as I’m writing, she’s still very 2-face as what I’ve heard and her new team members have also fallen prey to her 2-face/to-be-senior-manager tactic)
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All of us… may have been hypocrite once in a while…
For eg. When we condemn the others for some wrong-doing…
Or, we call people ‘racist’! (haha!! Think about it… ^_~)
Again, I’m not going to blabber about the deep meaning of hypocrisy…
It’s only… about dealing with them…

Don’t you find that, it’s irritating if you find out somebody to be such a hypocrite??
Chinese saying – “you’d rather deal with a real baddy, than to deal with a hypocrite”
However… I thought, if you know a person to be a hypocrite… sometimes (I won’t say 100%) it’s easier to deal with them… why?
As they’re hypocrites, they need to show you /or others the GOOD face, ie. sometimes, they’ve to eat their own words!
Even though you know very well, hypocrite as being hypocrite, they’re better in saying, than really practicing the righteous stuffs…
Rule of thumb – use their own words for them, repeat what they’ve mentioned in other occasion, apply it back to them…
They’ll just shut up…!!
In a way, I really hate these people, as dealing with them, it’s tiring… cos words don’t have any meaning to them, you know they say one thing, but they mean other thing
They tell you they do not mind bla bla bla , but they may tell others in another time that how bad the experience was… and all sorts of BS!
They like to act like “good people” in front of those beneficial to them… AND guess what… those not so beneficial to them… oh!! They’re not hypocrites anymore!! They finally release their true inner self, and become the real baddies!
They can yell, and scold you at the door~
They can act unreasonable and treat you like trash~ (come on! Cos you’re not beneficial to their “future” at all!!)
THEN, suddenly one fine day, they MAY treat you nice, polite, etc. WHY?? Cos, the beneficial party is around them…
Therefore, another face came out…

Oh~~~ I tell you, I can’t wait for the day, the stupid hypocrite face can be torn down and that the other face been shown…
But well… drama is drama…
True life is true life… I guess, I’ll never live up to that day…
And what next??
Back to the beginning:
I REALLY HATE DEALING WITH HYPOCRITES!

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