You want a MOM? or You want a WIFE?

yes, I don't quite understand, (and frankly, I wouldn't want to understand) why there're certain men, being brought up this way!!!!!!!!!!

why do you want to marry a woman, who you call, WIFE!!!

and yet, you expect her to be like your MOM????

if you can't love the woman, who you call WIFE, as a husband should/will love...

then, DON'T get married!!! frankly!!!

I seriously do not understand, why men, wanna look for a "just-like-my-mom" type of wives...

if you want your wife to be soooooooooooo much like your mom, does it mean that you even think of going to bed with your mom in your wildest dream??

come on!!

that's sick!!!

like I said, MAN!!

if you just can't grow up to be like a MAN,

or, you just don't have the capability to grow up like a MAN,

don't think about getting married, ok??

please know yourself better...

don't simply go marry some nice nice girl, (oh!! damn! maybe your mom urge you so, ie. "son AH son!! faster get married LO!!!")

and make them suffer...

seriously...

if you're always such a MOMMY BOY!!! please don't go screw up some nice nice girl's life, by getting married to her,

and expecting her, or forcing her, to slowly transforming to becoming your MOM!!

that's sick!

very sick!!!!!!!

and all MOM!! (including me!)

please do not make your boys such a mommy boy!!!

if you've been a GIRL yourself... please don't make other girls suffer... please be a little bit compassionate~

MAN oh MAN!!!!!

if you ever ever ever are going after some motherly figure (just somebody like your MOM!) girls...

then, please put off the idea that you wanna get married...

my suggestion??

go think of what you can do with your mom!!

and stop screwing the world!

damn you~

the above "inspired" rant, is from an article, I read, written by Betty Wu (吳淡如),

exactly... the story goes,

husband kept expecting the wife to be like the mom,

ie. do all the housechores, without nagging, let him laze around in the house... let him be just HE, when he's a boy... he's a at-home-grownup...

so, the wife TRIED to be one,

and all seems well...

at night, in bed...

of course, the man wanna be "close" to the wife..., ie. (husband's & wife's activities)

so, guess what the answer's given by the wife?