"You Are Invited"

When we send out invitation to others, for eg. For a house party, etc etc…

Do we send out to these people, cos, he/she HAS TO be there?

Or, do we really want to see these people, and that, we'd like to see him/her to be there???

Tough question huh?

Well… it depends… (sounds like a bloody consultant!!)

Of course, if you're a person, who's true to yourself, you'll be able to answer,

We invite those who we want to see, and sometimes, we even politely and kindly reject those invitation that, we do not want to attend, cos, it simply… is meaningless… isn't it?

But of course, if you're a person, who's not true to yourself, or, who only act upon other's reaction, or expectation,

Then, you'll just do whatever that you're supposed to do…

And sometimes, you'll even fight for it, cos, you thought… people will judge you for if those invitation fails…

Anyway…

I still like these words…

"It's far easier to fight for principles than to live up to them." ~ Adlai Stevenson

Sometimes… due to a formality that we long belived in…

We fight for it,

We offend others, even the loved ones,

But then, the "result" is indeed, not what we longed for…

Ironic isn't it?

Sad huh???

Yes… to me, it's sad…

It'll be a sad life, that I'll rather not live in...